I don’t have a hard time getting my wife to orgasm.
But really blow her mind? Like eyes-rolling-in-the-back-of-her-head sex
…That’s not something I’ve done a lot.
And it’s such a gift to participate in her pleasure that I really want to get better at it.
Because I’m a bit anxious about our sex life/life in general getting stale, I wanted to do something about it. I found the largest study ever on female pleasure done by some Yale researchers. It’s called OMGYES and I bought it there and then.
It definitely felt more geared towards women and what they like (why isn’t there a men’s section?).
This technique in particular stood out to me. (The next one I talk about is the real kicker though).
It’s called “edging.” Basically I touch her while we have sex until she gets close to orgasm then I completely stop. Then go again. Then stop.
Until we can’t bear it anymore and it leads to the most incredible orgasms either of us has ever had.
There were three other styles of edging that omgyes talked about but this one was the one that worked for us.
And like most people (I guess), we used to consider sex done after she finished.
I can’t believe I wasted the last 10 years with her doing that.
The second technique “multiples” is something my wife is in the lucky 44% of being able to do.
OMGYES has statistics alongside their hundreds of techniques of how likely a woman is to like it
Sex used to fit into under 20 minutes for us. Now on special nights it’s over an hour of uninterrupted pleasure for both of us.
Other ways OMGYES changed my sex life
I had probably heard of like half of what OMGYES had modules on, but the other half was really eye opening.
I can confidently say that I’m way better at foreplay and trying things my wife had no idea she would like.
The videos of the women in OMGYES are so honest and vulnerable (they actually show everything) that I’m sure anyone who gets it would find something new they can incorporate into their sex life.
They have a list of all the modules on their site to see if there’s something new to you.
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