Yale & I.U. Researchers Changed The Way Over a Million Women Experience Sex and Pleasure

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In the largest study of it's kind, Yale & I.U. researchers studied tens of thousands of women and couples.

They uncovered:

  • Dozens of techniques that many women do, but few tell each other about (in some cases 46% of women do it, but more than 80% have never told anyone)
  • Little known techniques like "Shallowing" or "Pairing" that, once tried, are loved by ~70%+ of women
  • Mental techniques & ways to frame sex that help overcome distracting thoughts

Warning: not all of this will be new information!

Most of us will discover 50% of the techniques in our life. This research is all about discovering the things you'll love, faster.

For example maybe you’ve heard about multiples orgasms...

Most women have heard about multiple orgasms, but few women have them on a regular basis.

The problem most run into is too much sensitivity to continue the same kind of stimulation after the first orgasm. And they’re right, only 1 in 6 women can reach their second orgasm with the same technique that worked for the first.

The big insight women discover (usually later in life) is that they need to treat their body after orgasm like a whole new body with different likes and dislikes.

And that’s why 53% of women who have multiples touch the area around the clit (think like a “palm hug”) until the oversensitivity passes which shouldn’t take more than a minute or two.

Then to build up to the next orgasm try less direct touch, slower movement and less pressure.

What works for her to build to first orgasmWhat works for her to rebuild to second orgasm
Circles around the hood that brush over the exposed clit only some of the timeLarger circles that move the surrounding skin and never brush over the exposed clit
Upward swipes from the opening upward onto the clit, alternating sides and occasionally moving directly upward on the clitDownward swipes from the top of the hood down to the bottom of the hood, not actually touching the clit, directly
Fast clockwise ovals moving the skin of the clit hood with considerable pressureSlower clockwise ovals that glide over the hood skin softly instead of pressing hard enough to move the skin
Downward pushes on the clit hood interspersed with upward swipes that brush over the clit, directlyDownward pushes but on a higher part of the hood (further up from the actual, exposed clit) interspersed with large, gentle circles that do not brush over the clit

Remember, very few women get this on their first try!

There’s no “right” way to discovering how to get multiples, but the pay-off is absolutely worth trying.

And if you liked this…

Yale & I.U. researchers studied techniques from over 20,000 women on what works for them, and what statistically will work for you too.

Dr. Christiana von HippelResearch scientist
Dr. Devon J. HenselProfessor at the Indiana University of Medicine

Because these discoveries would be read by nobody if they stayed in dense scientific literature, the researchers made a website called OMGYES, chock full of easy-to-follow video interviews/demonstrations, animations, how-to’s and more.

Here’s a few of the most popular techniques

The videos are of real women (not actresses) who volunteered to share their personal experiences because they believe this information needs to be out there.

Shallowing is a technique nearly every woman has tried without knowing it, but very few have stuck with it long enough to feel the distinct pleasure that comes along with it.

And with 84% of studied women loving this style of penetration, it begs the question…

Why isn’t everyone talking about this!?

As one research participant put it:

“I think this area is really underrated. I can have really amazing sex with penetration just going in an inch and never further.”

Angie talks about Shallowing and how it’s like “high definition” and once Shallowing starts, it’s not just foreplay, it’s the main course!

Shallowing video from Angie

Watch this video in season 2 module “Shallowing” towards the top of the page

This is Diana explaining hinting, a technique that involves touching around the area around the clit while only occasionally glancing over it. It’s awesome as foreplay.

Women describe the three styles of hinting as increasing the ache of anticipation and taking the start of sex from “we-can-start-whenever” to “oh-my-god-start-right-now.”

Orbiting video from hinting

Watch this video in Season 1 module “Hinting” at the top of the page

Pleasure & orgasms from Orbiting are like making a wine glass sing. It requires our attention and not trying too hard (or it just won’t sing!)

Here’s Maria going over Orbiting which involves circular motion on the clit (enjoyed by 71% of women who try it).

She explains her favorite of the 12 variations of orbiting, called “skipping.” Other styles of Orbiting that increase pleasure throughout the whole motion without being too intense in one spot. Skipping helps her increase the ramp up time to orgasm (and have bigger orgasms as a result) by by hitting the most sensitive area on just part of the “orbit.”

Orbiting video from Maria

Watch this video in Season 1 module “Orbiting” towards the bottom of the page

Only 18% of women can have orgasms with penetration alone, compared to 73% that can by Pairing!

What’s Pairing? It’s when you combine penetration with clitoral stimulation and 97% of women whose partners tried pairing said it made them a better lover. 97% percent! If that’s not a sign to try this right now, we don’t know what is!

Because of how popular this technique is, researchers took extra care to find and record:

  • What keeps people from first trying it and how to get around each
  • Which body positions work best (8 of them!)
  • 5 different styles of pairing - usually just one or two works for any one woman
  • How 30% of women can actually have two types of orgasms at the same time (hard to achieve but fun to attempt!)

Here’s Kate (who isn’t one to exaggerate) saying having a partner who encouraged pairing was a “Game changer.”

Orbiting video from Maria

Watch this video in Season 2 module “Pairing” towards the top of the page

For trying out these techniques with a partner the question many of the women asked is:

“Will I actually use this in real life!”

That’s where Signaling comes in. The art of asking for what you like without hurt feelings or awkwardness.

There are over 17 ways researchers found are most effective for people.

Here’s Alba (one of many) in this module who explains her technique for guiding her partner to touch her exactly how she likes while making them feel like the best lover in the world.

Orbiting video from Maria

Watch this video in Season 1 module “Signaling” towards the top of the page

Watch this video in Season 1 module “Signaling” towards the top of the page

This is just a small taste of what’s inside OMGYES. There are many hundreds of interviews, how-to's, animations, and more. Enough to try something new every day for almost a year!

As we all know, there’s been so much misinformation, taboo and vagueness about what actually feels good.

For the first time ever, there’s a map of human collective experience of what actually feels good and why.

That shows the patterns in tens of thousands of people’s lived experience.

As we all know, there’s been so much misinformation, taboo and vagueness about what actually feels good.

So, for the first time in history, there’s a map of human collective experience of the specific things that actually feel good and why.

That shows the patterns in tens of thousands of people’s lived experience.

With what little marketing they’ve been able to do, the feedback on how sex-lives have been made better have been incredible. Bloggers, People Magazine, Oprah Magazine, Men’s Health, Psychology today and more have all written about OMGYES:

Here are what people are saying about OMGYES:

It really has changed the game for everyone I have shared it with

@sexedbyem @OMGYESdotcom y’all are the bestest #seggseducation#spicytoyrecommedations#learntogether#seggsedbyem#educationalpurposes#educationtiktok♬ Watermelon Sugar - Harry Styles

It’s great for individuals and people in relationships that want to deepen their knowledge and explore new avenues of pleasure

@therapyjeff 4 of my favorite resources for healthy relationships. OMGYES #pairedpartnership#therapytiktok#mentalhealth#relationshiptips#dating#datingadvice#therapy#marriage♬ original sound - TherapyJeff

It gave us shared words

"It’s so simple but having these shared words for what we each like makes us more confident asking for things."

Valerie & Marlo

We try a new technique a week

"We learn the techniques separately and try a different one each time. Some work, others don’t - but it’s intimate & fun"

Aurora & Dave

Didn’t think it was possible

"The last 20 years I’ve only been able to come with toys. Until today. I used OMGYES to figure out what I liked alone, and then how to ask for it."

Rosa

Like tons of of back-up plans

"If one technique isn’t working, now I’ve got dozens more. And I understand how to read signals and what to ask to fine-tune each one."

Tobias

I realized I’m not alone

"I loved the statistics parts. They made me feel less alone, and less ‘weird’ finding out millions of other women like what I like"

Val

I already know a lot about sex but…

"...OMGYES has ‘never heard of that before’ stuff, filling in what I haven’t even thought about while building on the things I do know."

Max

I found new kinds of pleasure

"After watching the videos on Rhythm I just discovered an amazing sensitive spot that I had no clue existed."

Dana

And the stories people are sharing on social media are incredible:

Big institutions don’t believe that pleasure should be studied for a few reasons. Sometimes it’s political and fear of getting fired. But most often these big companies just don’t believe pleasure is important enough.

So the researchers behind OMGYES use one-time payments (not subscriptions!) from sharing their research to fund future studies and map human pleasure.

Unfortunately the researchers found a big problem…

People are very skeptical of any kind of sex info - because there is SO MUCH misinformation out there. They felt anxious that people would lump this in with the bogus cosmo sex-tips out there and wouldn’t try it.

So to make absolutely crystal-clear sure that anyone who tried OMGYES could try it risk free, they’re offering a 30 day unconditional money back guarantee.

They ask that you dig into the product tonight, this weekend, whenever. But if you don’t find something that dramatically increases your pleasure within the first 30 minutes, please email for all of your money back. There will be no questions asked.

And if within 30 days you don’t feel you’ve made an incredible life-long investment into your pleasure, please email for a refund (there’s an impossible to miss "help" menu in the product).

These researchers went heavily in debt to fund this (over 4.6 million dollars) and because of the success of OMGYES, they’re not going to stop anytime soon. Your $149 , $99 one-time purchase goes to support the next round of research that you will be eligible to participate in if you so choose!

You can sign up (risk free) here.

But as a thank you for ordering specifically from this page, you’ll also get Season 3 which is all about techniques with toys.

Whether you’re a beginner or expert with toys, the research revealed surprisingly simple ways to make the toys you already have feel even better, and ways to use them together with a partner.

The studies show that most toys end up in a box in the closet, going unused after the first week. This research isn’t about buying new toys, but getting way more out of the toys you do have.

Because you’re getting this for free, we’ll keep it as 100% a surprise for you to see inside.

You can sign up (risk free) here.

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